This isn't about the title or the power for me, and you know it. It's about the title and power for you. You've made it obvious.

[ the attempt to tear her down, that is, and pretend that she is the one uncomfortable with the power and regard she has been given here — excusing his callous treatment of her, of her upbringing, in the process by blaming her for her own feelings.

it's enough to make her believe she has struck a cord simply by daring to exist with power over him. ]

There is no 'we.'